The character Black Adder illustrates well the nature of man which is generally this, grovelling to get to where you want and cut off the others head while the back is turned. This becomes more concealed under the Christian name where many are trying to discover self and the born again nature and not often understanding the nature of whom they really are- a mixture of good and evil, truth and error, like Eve’s chosen tree in Eden. They talk about others but are of practically no value in uplifting others.
Many members are there to worship God and met others in their group and to do unto others as they would do unto you. When it comes to reconciling and forgiveness there is a 
large fail or even showing interest outside ones circle of friends. When it comes to keeping membership and going after the lost most paid ministers give example of why there is a large failure for coherent love.